Dating a guy who doesnt think hes good enough

In some ways, I meant it: we’d both dreamed of motherhood, and here we were, picnicking in the park with our children. The dream, like that of our mothers and their mothers from time immemorial, was to fall in love, get married, and live happily ever after.

To the outside world, of course, we still call ourselves feminists and insist—vehemently, even—that we’re independent and self-sufficient and don’t believe in any of that damsel-in-distress stuff, but in reality, we aren’t fish who can do without a bicycle, we’re women who want a traditional family. ), every woman I know—no matter how successful and ambitious, how financially and emotionally secure—feels panic, occasionally coupled with desperation, if she hits 30 and finds herself unmarried.

But either way, in episode after episode, as both women continue to be unlucky in love, settling starts to look pretty darn appealing.

Mary is supposed to be contentedly independent and fulfilled by her newsroom family, but in fact her life seems lonely.

Are we to assume that at the end of the series, Mary, by then in her late 30s, found her soul mate after the lights in the newsroom went out and her work family was disbanded?

If her experience was anything like mine or that of my single friends, it’s unlikely.

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